Our friends say we are glowing...
Honestly, they are right.
Adore
Become great at making her feel good.
Taste
Let's talk about what you really want.
Sense
Slow down and rediscover touch that connects you.
Heat
Warm wax. Cool touch. Build trust through new sensations.
Muse
Creative play for couples.
Paint, laugh, connect.
Ready to learn?
Our friends say we are glowing...
Honestly, they are right.
Adore
Become great at making her feel good.
Taste
Let's talk about what you really want.
Sense
Slow down and rediscover touch that connects you.
Heat
Warm wax. Cool touch. Build trust through new sensations.
Muse
Creative play for couples.
Paint, laugh, connect.
Ready to learn?
Because closeness doesn’t just happen
In every relationship, there’s a spark. But life, kids, and screens can dim it.
Arya helps couples reconnect through guided experiences, expert-backed advice, and curated intimacy essentials.
No therapy talk. No awkwardness. Just real connection, beautifully designed.
Personal Guidance
Your Intimacy Concierge is like a personal coach for your relationship, helping you explore connection, curiosity, and find new ways to enjoy each other… everywhere.
Think of it as your shortcut to effortless closeness, without the awkward guessing. Chat privately with your own intimacy concierge about your desires and we'll take it from there.
Created by experts, adored by couples
With intimacy educator Shan Boodram and relationship scientist Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Arya brings research, empathy, and a playful edge to modern relationships. Get full access to Arya’s world of guided connection. Inside, you’ll find "Scenes": short, interactive journeys designed for two. Each Scene blends conversation, reflection, and playful challenges to help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some are deep, all are real.
We add new content every month
Discreetly Delivered
You’ll also unlock expert insights from relationship educators, guided touch practices, and curated recommendations from brands that actually get intimacy. It’s everything you need to keep your connection evolving. No awkward therapy talk, just modern intimacy made easy.
Our team
Meet your Concierge
Chief Intimacy Officer
Shan Boodram
You may know her from Netflix’s Too Hot to Handle - but Shan’s expertise runs much deeper than reality TV. With 15+ years in the field, she’s a certified sexologist who blends science-backed sex education with cultural confidence to help couples spark (and keep) the chemistry in and out of the bedroom.
In-House Sexologist
Tugce Balik
Tugce blends Western science with Eastern traditions to help people heal, reconnect, and feel at home in their bodies—and with each other. She’s a certified Tibetan Tantra practitioner and an American Board-Certified Sexologist, with a focus on healing through embodiment.
Relationship Science
Nicholas Velotta
Nicholas is a relationship researcher and sexologist focused on how intimacy, gender, and sexuality shape our everyday lives. His superpower? Turning complex intimacy research into warm, inclusive conversations you actually want to have.
Author and Sociologist
Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz
Dr. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on “Married at First Sight”.
Author, Fantasies and Scenes
Karolina Wilde
Karolina is a sex-positive writer with a love for big emotions and bold storytelling. Her debut novel, House of Pain, kicks off a dark, steamy trilogy, and the feedback she got made her realize that people, especially women, are keen yet sometimes reserved to make their fantasies come true.
Head of Concierge Team
Chloe J.
Chloe is a mom of two, the heart behind Arya’s Concierge team, and a former Pilates teacher. She met dozens of women before, during, and after birth, and heard how hard it is to gain your body confidence back, as well as the intimacy you once shared. She knows how messy, beautiful, and ever-evolving relationships can be, and she’s here to make it feel a little easier to talk about.
Scenes and Products Curato
Athena Gayle
She brings a smart, sex-positive voice to a space that’s often full of noise—helping people feel more seen, curious, and informed in their sexuality. She’s also deeply involved in the kink community and passionate about building spaces where everyone feels welcome.
Our team
Meet your Concierge
Chief Intimacy Officer
Shan Boodram
You may know her from Netflix’s Too Hot to Handle - but Shan’s expertise runs much deeper than reality TV. With 15+ years in the field, she’s a certified sexologist who blends science-backed sex education with cultural confidence to help couples spark (and keep) the chemistry in and out of the bedroom.
In-House Sexologist
Tugce Balik
Tugce blends Western science with Eastern traditions to help people heal, reconnect, and feel at home in their bodies—and with each other. She’s a certified Tibetan Tantra practitioner and an American Board-Certified Sexologist, with a focus on healing through embodiment.
Relationship Science
Nicholas Velotta
Nicholas is a relationship researcher and sexologist focused on how intimacy, gender, and sexuality shape our everyday lives. His superpower? Turning complex intimacy research into warm, inclusive conversations you actually want to have.
Author and Sociologist
Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz
Dr. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on “Married at First Sight”.
Author, Fantasies and Scenes
Karolina Wilde
Karolina is a sex-positive writer with a love for big emotions and bold storytelling. Her debut novel, House of Pain, kicks off a dark, steamy trilogy, and the feedback she got made her realize that people, especially women, are keen yet sometimes reserved to make their fantasies come true.
Head of Concierge Team
Chloe J.
Chloe is a mom of two, the heart behind Arya’s Concierge team, and a former Pilates teacher. She met dozens of women before, during, and after birth, and heard how hard it is to gain your body confidence back, as well as the intimacy you once shared. She knows how messy, beautiful, and ever-evolving relationships can be, and she’s here to make it feel a little easier to talk about.
Scenes and Products Curato
Athena Gayle
She brings a smart, sex-positive voice to a space that’s often full of noise—helping people feel more seen, curious, and informed in their sexuality. She’s also deeply involved in the kink community and passionate about building spaces where everyone feels welcome.
300,000+ members Are Saying
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Frequently
Asked
Questions
Is this just a subscription box?
Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!
Is Arya only for couples?
Nope. Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives.
Is your packaging discreet?
Our packaging can come unbranded, with no logos or revealing labels. What happens inside your bedroom stays there—and we keep it that way.
Is chatting with the concierge anonymous?
Yes. You can use a nickname, and your info stays private. We never share or sell your data. It’s just you, your partner, and your concierge.
We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?
Of course not! We create Scenes to cater to various interests and desires. Based on user feedback, even the most seasoned 'Kinksters' have enjoyed the boost in erotic communication and intimate inspiration. month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!
I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?
This is why Arya exists! We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about sex, desires, and intimacy. Arya will give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.
My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?
It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya will help you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about your desires. If you partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa); we'll help you find a way to explore them in ways that benefit both of you.
Is Arya LGBTQ+ inclusive?
Arya is for all couples—across all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. We’re continually learning and evolving to ensure our content, language, and offerings reflect the full spectrum of love, intimacy, and connection. If there’s ever something we can do better, we’re listening
Do I get to choose my box items each month?
Nope, your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They've selected premium products to elevate your Scene experience.
Is Arya going to send me tons of toys every month?
Yes and no. This depends on what you consider a toy :) You'll receive items that are hand-selected to enhance your play. This can range from vibrators to lubes, to impact toys or devices you've never even thought of buying. Each Arya Box will have the exact products you need to experiene your monthly Scene together.
Am I too old to benefit from Arya?
You're never too old for great sex! Couples of all age ranges love using Arya.
We've been together for so long, what can we possible gain from Arya?
Morel adventure! 1 out of 4 people who join Arya are looking for ways to make sex more adventerous. The best way to spice up your bedroom is by exploring novel sexual experiences and Arya is here to give you a boost in your sensual exploration.
You keep mentioning the word 'scenes'. I'm not sure I understand what it means.
Scenes are guided, interactive journeys for two. They blend meaningful conversation, moments of reflection, and playful challenges that help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some are deeper, but all of them feel real and designed to bring you closer. Each Scene includes step-by-step guidance, audio-erotica playlists, and carefully chosen items to support your exploration.
Is this just a subscription box?
Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!
Is Arya only for couples?
Nope. Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives.
Is your packaging discreet?
Our packaging can come unbranded, with no logos or revealing labels. What happens inside your bedroom stays there—and we keep it that way.
Is chatting with the concierge anonymous?
Yes. You can use a nickname, and your info stays private. We never share or sell your data. It’s just you, your partner, and your concierge.
We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?
Of course not! We create Scenes to cater to various interests and desires. Based on user feedback, even the most seasoned 'Kinksters' have enjoyed the boost in erotic communication and intimate inspiration. month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!
I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?
This is why Arya exists! We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about sex, desires, and intimacy. Arya will give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.
My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?
It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya will help you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about your desires. If you partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa); we'll help you find a way to explore them in ways that benefit both of you.
Is Arya LGBTQ+ inclusive?
Arya is for all couples—across all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. We’re continually learning and evolving to ensure our content, language, and offerings reflect the full spectrum of love, intimacy, and connection. If there’s ever something we can do better, we’re listening
Do I get to choose my box items each month?
Nope, your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They've selected premium products to elevate your Scene experience.
Is Arya going to send me tons of toys every month?
Yes and no. This depends on what you consider a toy :) You'll receive items that are hand-selected to enhance your play. This can range from vibrators to lubes, to impact toys or devices you've never even thought of buying. Each Arya Box will have the exact products you need to experiene your monthly Scene together.
Am I too old to benefit from Arya?
You're never too old for great sex! Couples of all age ranges love using Arya.
We've been together for so long, what can we possible gain from Arya?
Morel adventure! 1 out of 4 people who join Arya are looking for ways to make sex more adventerous. The best way to spice up your bedroom is by exploring novel sexual experiences and Arya is here to give you a boost in your sensual exploration.
You keep mentioning the word 'scenes'. I'm not sure I understand what it means.
Scenes are guided, interactive journeys for two. They blend meaningful conversation, moments of reflection, and playful challenges that help you explore attraction, trust, and communication in new ways. Some are flirty, some are deeper, but all of them feel real and designed to bring you closer. Each Scene includes step-by-step guidance, audio-erotica playlists, and carefully chosen items to support your exploration.
What's Your Persona?
Our friends say we're glowing.
Honestly, they are right 🔥
Take our 5-minute quiz and uncover
your intimate self...
What's Your Persona?
Our friends say we're glowing.
Honestly, they are right 🔥
Take our 5-minute quiz and uncover
your intimate self...